Health & Body

Your Body Keeps Sending You Messages, and It Isn’t Being Dramatic

By Annessa Leigh, RN

There’s a moment I’ve watched happen in exam rooms for years. A woman sits on the edge of the table and starts by apologizing. She’s sorry to take up my time, sorry it’s probably nothing, sorry she waited three months to mention the headaches she’s been having. Before we’ve even talked about what’s wrong, she’s explaining why she hasn’t done anything about it, and I find myself wondering how long she’s been pushing through symptoms because everything else in her life seemed more important.

Most of us get remarkably good at ignoring our bodies. We work through headaches, brush off fatigue that never lifts, skip meals, trade sleep for a few more hours of getting things done, and promise ourselves we’ll deal with it when life settles down. But sometimes the symptoms keep coming anyway. Your body isn’t an interruption to your responsibilities. It’s what makes them possible, and when something changes, it’s worth paying attention.

Wonderfully Made, Not a Work in Progress

David was a shepherd boy who became the king of Israel, and he wrote many of the Psalms, the Bible’s collection of songs and prayers. Long before he wore a crown he spent nights outdoors with a flock that couldn’t look after itself, so he knew what it was to be tired and responsible at the same time. (If you’ve ever stayed up with a sick kid and then gone to work anyway, you two would get along.) In Psalm 139, he stops to marvel at how God made him:

“Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex! Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.”

— Psalm 139:14, NLT

“Complex” is a good word for it. Think about everything happening inside you while you’re busy doing something else: your heart keeps your blood moving, your immune system responds to threats you never hear about, your kidneys filter waste, and your brain coordinates countless functions without asking you to think about any of them. Even a paper cut sets off a remarkable repair process, and most days we barely notice any of it, until something stops working the way we expect. Then we’re frustrated that our body won’t cooperate with the schedule we made for it.

David looked at his body as the work of God, something worth gratitude and wonder. That doesn’t mean it will always work perfectly. We get sick, we age, and we live with limits we never chose. Being wonderfully made doesn’t mean being exempt from physical problems. It means your value isn’t measured by how efficiently your body performs, and something with that kind of value deserves attention and care.

Not a Trophy, a Trust

Paul used to arrest Christians for a living, until Jesus met him on a road and changed his direction, and he spent the rest of his life starting churches and writing letters to them. One of those churches was in Corinth, a busy port city, and in one of his letters he reminded the believers that their bodies mattered to God:

“Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself, for God bought you with a high price. So you must honor God with your body.”

— 1 Corinthians 6:19–20, NLT

Paul was writing about how believers should conduct themselves with their bodies, particularly when it came to sexual morality. But the larger principle is worth holding onto: your body isn’t insignificant to God. It’s part of the life He’s entrusted to you, and caring for your health is one reasonable way to take that seriously.

Here’s where I think a lot of women get stuck. We’re so used to taking care of everyone else that taking care of ourselves starts to feel optional. We’ll schedule the child’s appointment, refill the dog’s medication, remind our spouse about a follow-up, and make sure everyone has what they need, while the appointment we’ve been meaning to make for ourselves has been on the list for six months. We notice right away when someone we love needs attention. We just don’t always give ourselves the same consideration.

Looking after your health isn’t selfish. It’s caring for something God handed to you. That doesn’t require a perfect diet, an expensive supplement routine, or a workout schedule that becomes one more source of pressure. It starts with accepting that your physical needs are legitimate, and that they don’t disappear just because other people need you.

Even Jesus Got Tired

One thing I appreciate about the Gospels, the four books that tell Jesus’ life story, is that they never present Him as someone without ordinary physical needs. John, one of Jesus’ twelve closest friends and a fisherman who worked alongside Peter, tells us that Jesus grew tired on a journey and sat down beside a well to rest. Mark, who is traditionally said to have written down Peter’s memories of Jesus, describes Jesus asleep on a cushion in a boat during a storm while His disciples panicked. (If you’ve ever dozed off in the passenger seat while someone else drove through bad weather, you understand the trust involved.) Jesus ate, slept, and rested, and none of it diminished His purpose.

We sometimes act as though pushing past our limits proves how dedicated we are. We skip breaks because there’s too much to do, stay up because something still needs finishing, and ignore exhaustion because someone is counting on us. Life does include seasons that call for extra effort. But there’s a difference between meeting an occasional demanding stretch and making exhaustion your normal operating condition. Your body needs sleep, good food, water, movement, and recovery. Those aren’t luxuries for people with fewer responsibilities, and ignoring them for long has consequences. You can’t build a sustainable life on the assumption that your body has unlimited capacity.

What Listening Actually Looks Like

In nursing, a symptom is information, not an accusation. A headache doesn’t mean you’ve managed your life badly, fatigue isn’t proof that you’re lazy, and a change in how your body works isn’t something to be embarrassed about reporting. We look at symptoms to figure out what might be happening. Sometimes the explanation is simple, and sometimes it takes testing or treatment. Occasionally what looks like ordinary exhaustion turns out to have a medical cause that needs attention, which is why I don’t think we should automatically blame every symptom on stress, age, or a full plate.

Stress can absolutely affect your physical health, and so can too little sleep and poor nutrition. They just aren’t the only possibilities. The goal isn’t to worry about every ache. It’s to stop brushing aside information that deserves a closer look.

Three Ways to Start Paying Attention

You don’t need to overhaul your health this week. Start with three manageable steps.

1. Identify what has changed

Think about how you’ve been feeling lately. Are you more tired than usual, getting headaches that keep coming back, or noticing changes in your sleep, appetite, digestion, or energy? Ask yourself three things: What has changed from my normal? How long has it been going on? Is it getting better, getting worse, or staying the same?

You don’t need to figure out the cause. You’re just gathering information. A symptom that keeps coming back, lasts, or gets in the way of your day deserves a proper medical evaluation, and sudden or severe symptoms may need attention right away instead of waiting for a routine appointment.

2. Look at what your body is being asked to carry

Now look at an ordinary week. How much sleep are you really getting? Are you eating regularly, getting any real rest, and moving during the day, or sitting or standing in one spot for hours? Are you working through breaks because no one can cover for you?

These questions aren’t about blame. They help you see whether your routine supports your basic needs. Maybe you find you’re sleeping five hours a night, or going a whole shift without a real meal, or your calendar holds everyone else’s appointments but none of yours. That doesn’t tell you what’s causing a symptom, but it shows where your routine needs attention.

3. Respond to one thing you’ve been putting off

Pick one action. Schedule the appointment you’ve been delaying, plan for a decent night’s sleep, take the break you’re entitled to when it’s safe to, pack something you can eat during a busy shift, or write down the symptoms you want to bring up with your healthcare professional so you don’t forget them once you’re sitting in the exam room.

One is enough to begin. You don’t need another elaborate routine that takes more time and energy than you have. You need a practical response to something you’ve noticed. And if your symptoms continue, get worse, or worry you, please don’t swap rest or lifestyle changes for medical care.

Caring for Your Body Is Part of Caring for Your Life

Your body will change throughout your life. Some seasons will be physically demanding, and others will bring illness, recovery, or aging you didn’t choose. You can’t prevent every change, and taking good care of yourself doesn’t guarantee perfect health. But you can pay attention. You can notice when something isn’t normal for you, stop treating your physical needs as the least important thing on the list, and ask for care without apologizing for needing it.

The woman on the exam table shouldn’t have to begin by explaining why she deserves to be there, and neither should you. Your body doesn’t need to reach a crisis before it gets your attention.

A Small Place to Start

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Annessa